Autism

Police Strip and Restrain Autistic Teenager


Conservative Member of Parliament Oliver Coville is objecting to the way police in Plymouth treated a 19-year-old autistic woman they picked up for behaving aggressively:

Mr Colvile told MPs: "She was arrested, heavily restrained, completely stripped and put into a body suit. I find this all quite depressing.

"When her mother went to Charles Cross Police Station she found her daughter in quite a state. She was banging her head against the wall."

 

An Autism Dad Alone


Stuart Duncan's meditation on being an autism dad with a suddenly empty nest struck a chord with me. After focusing his life around marriage and kids for a long time, he is suddenly alone for a week and enjoys himself by eating stuff he likes and doing stuff he wants to do. And then a stray comment on Facebook makes him feel guilty about that:

I posted some pictures on Facebook to which one person replied “you’re not supposed to be enjoying this! lol”

And I got to thinking.

She’s right. I’m not supposed to be enjoying this. What I’m supposed to do is feel alone and quiet and maybe even sad. After all, I do miss my boys tremendously right now. My wife too, but more so my boys since we were together so often for the last 5 months… just the 3 of us.

But why? Why do to that to myself just because I’m “supposed to?”

The moral of this story is: don't make jokes like that to autistic people. Those random comments that really just mean "hi" can really mess us up. Staurt was recently diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, and that should be a flag to friends-- don't tease. In general, and of course there are exceptions, it doesn't work for us.

My domestic partner is in Europe. A decade ago, I would have had trouble accepting how much I enjoy this. The day to day contact I have with him is essential to me, but it's also more than is completely comfortable. Having a break from it feels good. The extent to which I enjoy being alone used to make me feel guilty or selfish. Now it just feels autistic.

Life should be more than a grim slog that we make the best of. In order for it to be, we have to allow ourselves to love what we love and be who we are. That I love being alone does not mean I love the people in my life less than others. It means that my brain works in a way that is different from most other people, so being around them is just difficult for me in ways that relationships as society constructs them do not allow for. Different, not less.

 

Autistic Man Sexually Abused


Mark Pollard has been arrested in Pennsylvania for sexual abuse of an autistic man who was trying to help him get home safely:

Pollard was “very intoxicated” at Thunder Rolls bar in Jeannette when the 21-year-old man offered to walk him home on the afternoon of Nov. 18, according to an affidavit of probable cause.

While in the backyard of Pollard’s girlfriend’s Magee Avenue residence, Pollard allegedly sexually assaulted the man and threatened him not to tell anyone, police said.

Pollard is charged with two counts each of involuntary deviate sexual intercourse by forcible compulsion, involuntary deviate sexual intercourse of a person with mental disability, indecent assault by forcible compulsion, indecent assault of a person with a mental disability and single counts of terroristic threats and indecent exposure.

Read more: http://triblive.com/news/westmoreland/3011520-74/pollard-assault-charged-according-counts-district-girl-held-indecent-mark#ixzz2DMEmUz1r
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Pollard was “very intoxicated” at Thunder Rolls bar in Jeannette when the 21-year-old man offered to walk him home on the afternoon of Nov. 18, according to an affidavit of probable cause.

While in the backyard of Pollard’s girlfriend’s Magee Avenue residence, Pollard allegedly sexually assaulted the man and threatened him not to tell anyone, police said.

Pollard is charged with two counts each of involuntary deviate sexual intercourse by forcible compulsion, involuntary deviate sexual intercourse of a person with mental disability, indecent assault by forcible compulsion, indecent assault of a person with a mental disability and single counts of terroristic threats and indecent exposure.

Read more: http://triblive.com/news/westmoreland/3011520-74/pollard-assault-charged-according-counts-district-girl-held-indecent-mark#ixzz2DMEmUz1r
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Pollard was “very intoxicated” at Thunder Rolls bar in Jeannette when the 21-year-old man offered to walk him home on the afternoon of Nov. 18, according to an affidavit of probable cause.

While in the backyard of Pollard’s girlfriend’s Magee Avenue residence, Pollard allegedly sexually assaulted the man and threatened him not to tell anyone, police said.

Pollard is charged with two counts each of involuntary deviate sexual intercourse by forcible compulsion, involuntary deviate sexual intercourse of a person with mental disability, indecent assault by forcible compulsion, indecent assault of a person with a mental disability and single counts of terroristic threats and indecent exposure.

 

Watch: Autistic Boy Scores Touchdown in Last Game


Justin Haacke is a little autistic boy who loves playing football. But his parents have decided that it is becoming too much of a safety risk for him, and, especially since his dad is his coach, I've got to trust that they are probably right in their decision that Justin should not continue to play. But I hope things change for him and that he gets to be like Anthony Starego, kicking real game-winning field goals. For now, this staged touchdown is a sweet ending to the first quarter of Justin's game.

 

Watch: Autistic Kicker on ESPN


 

Yesterday ESPN showed this beautifully filmed segment on Anthony Starego, an autistic teenager who recently kicked a game-winning field goal for his high school football team. It's moving to see one of our own given the full "warrior athlete hero" treatment.

Anthony was previously featured here and here.

 

 
 
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